Celebrate Intimacy

with Relationship Sexpert Larry James

All articles are written by Larry James unless otherwise indicated.

Is Your Woman A Cunnilingus Virgin? - Gabrielle Moore, Guest Author - This may come as a surprise to you but not all women come with full knowledge and acceptance of cunnilingus or "being eaten out." From a woman's point of view, oral sex is often a matter of trust, i.e., opening up her most "scared place" for "close scrutiny" to you.

Giving Your Man A Great Blow Job - John Wilder, Guest Author - and Overcoming Your Inhibitions About It! A man often feels cheated and rejected and unloved when a woman refuses him this sublime pleasure. A woman who refuses this pleasure is not giving herlself completely to her man. I suggest getting over your inhibitions about this and become adept at pleasuring your man.

Brain Research Into the Healthy & Unhealthy Impacts of Sex on Women & Men - Dr. Lisa Love, Guest Author - Sex can be one of the most wonderful experiences anyone will ever have. As brain research shows at the time of orgasm oxytocin is released for both men and women, which is one of the main feel good chemicals known. For men the added chemical of testosterone increases their aggressive tendencies and sex drives.

Frequent Ejaculation Improves Sperm Quality - Men whose sperm had a higher-than-normal level of DNA damage improved their sperm count quality by ejaculating every day for one week before their partners' peak fertility. Prior to the daily ejaculation, 32% of the groups sperm was rated as damaged, on average.

10 Things You Didn't Know About Orgasm - Mary Roach, Guest Author - In this video "Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex" author, Mary Roach, delves into obscure scientific research, some of it centuries old, to make 10 surprising claims about sexual climax, ranging from the bizarre to the hilarious.

Give Him a Hand - Tracey Cox, Guest Author - Want to be more confident when you, er, take matters into your own hnds? These "manual sex" techniques (my editor won't let me say hand job) will make him want to give you a round of applause -- not to mention return the favor.

Is Her NOT 'Coming' Getting in the Way of Your Relationship? - Gabrielle Moore, Guest Author - Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It's a fact that men and women are different and that extends to achieving sexual pleasure as well. Take for instance the topic of orgasms; men reach their climax sooner than women. Period.

Why Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm? - Gabrielle Moore, Guest Author - According to reports, roughly 70% of women don't reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!

How to Give Her an Orgasm - Gabrielle Moore, Guest Author - Is it really so hard to give a woman an orgasm? Many say it's difficult but many men also claim that it's very easy IF you know what to do. So the question is, do you?

Love is Not Enough - Clair Hatch, Guest Author - A lot of people wonder what happened to the sexual revolution, especially around Valentine's Day. In a lot of homes today, the sexual temperature feels more like the 50's than the 70's.

My Partner Cheat? Never! - 29 red flags that "May" suggest a cheater. Here are a few things that often point a finger to a cheater. While it is true that some of the following red flags may be sure-fire indicators, I've used the words "may suggest a cheater" because it may be wise to give your partner the benefit of the doubt when suspicions arise.

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Too Wupped for Whoopee? - A surprising percentage of couples in committed relationships have little or no time for physical intimacy. It's not just fatigue that's putting the "ex" in sex. Researchers point to causes both physical and psychological.

Making Love - Thoughts and reflections on making love. The experience of physical intimacy can be the single most loving, most exciting, most powerful, most exhilarating, most renewing, most energizing, most affirming, most intimate, most uniting, most stress-relieving, most recreative physical experience of which humans are capable.

69 Ways to Be Naughty and Nice! - Learn how to light the fire AND keep it burning red hot!

Secrets of Sex-cess! - Lessons in sexual creativity. When the energy you pour into your relationship has slowed to a trickle, here are some things to consider for extraordinary sexual sex-cess.

15 Hot Ideas for Phenomenal Physical Intimacy! - Count 'em! Fifteen ideas to help you put the "sizzle" back in sex.

How About a "Quickie?" - At one time or another, most of us think about a quickie, but are often reluctant to request it.

The ABCs of Great Sex - You didn't learn this alphabet in school. 26 letters, each with words that can help breathe life into your relationship and help you Celebrate Love and Intimacy with your partner.

Expressing Your Love Orally - Tips and suggestions for preparing yourself for an oral lovemaking feast! PLUS a Video, "Encouraging A Partner To Try Oral Sex" from Dr. Joy! Watch it together!

Understanding Your Partner's Sexuality - Alina Ruigrok, Guest Author - If couples would spend some time to truly learn and understand their partner's sexuality, they could build a happier and healthier sex life together, instead of facing the conflicts that stall their relationship from blossoming further.

The Fine Art of Fellatio (fel-lay'-she-o) - (For Women Only) - Kara Oh, Guest Author - When you can learn to truly enjoy the whole process of oral sex, you'll have an unbelievably happy man on your hands, but be careful with the teeth!

Bringing Romantic Fantasies to Life - Nancy Fagan, M.S., Guest Author - One of the most enjoyable parts of having a relationship is being able to fulfill your romantic fantasies.

Women Have Fantasies Too - Nancy Fagan, M.S., Guest Author - In order to rouse a woman's fantasies, it takes a little work. First of all, when you set out to stimulate your partner, you need to narrow your focus down to the three specific types of fantasies.

On-line Orgasmic Simulation! - A "fun" look at how men and woman experience orgasms differently. Pay attention, guys!

Sex Quiz: Are You in a Low-Sex Relationship? - Is sex more work than play in your marriage? Do you schedule it in like a dentist appointment? Do you make love once a month, twice at the most? If you answered yes to these questions, you are among the forty million Americans trapped in a low-sex or no-sex marriage.

What Foods Make Semen Taste Better? - Not all women enjoy the taste of semen. Some savor it like a delicacy. These tips will help you go from bitter to better!

The Fine Art of Cunnilingus (cun'-ni-lin'-gus) - (For Men Only) - Kara Oh, Guest Author - Please your woman orally but remember to shave your whiskers. Here are all the right moves, guys!

He Can't Get It Up? - (For Women Only) - What to do when he's having a problem getting it up.

Do You Show Up For the "Big O"? - Leslie Karen Lobell, M.A., Guest Author - Do you show up - I mean really show up - when you have sex or make love? You might think, "Well, anyone would show up for that, right?" Hmmmmmm! Read on. . .

Why Women Fake Orgasm - Laura Dawn Lewis, Guest Author - "Why are you waiting?" she asked between breaths as he continued to thrust inside her. She could tell he wanted to cum. Read on. . .

A Clean Sex Machine! - When making love, really "making love," cleanliness is paramount. Here's why.

Show and Tell - (For Women Only) - If you want your man to be a great lover, you must ask for what you want and show him what feels good.

Oh, no! Not the "M" Word! - The so-called shame of masturbation runs deep for many of us. Get over it! Hair will not grow on the palm of your hand and you will not go blind!

Detailing Foreplay - Part I - (For Men Only) - Hey, guys! If you are bankrupt in the foreplay department and truly interested in improving your sexual relationship with your partner, you must read this article.

Detailing Foreplay - Part II - (For Men Only) - Why two parts? Because in Larry's relationship coaching, most women complain of a lack of foreplay.

Three Kinds of Sex Happy Couples Need - Nisandeh Neta, Guest Author - Not all sex is created equal. When it comes to lovemaking, marriages need a little variety. The recipe for a great marriage is to have an equal balance of the three basic approaches to lovemaking.

Is Your Husband a Sex Beggar? - Keith F. Luscher, Guest Author - (For Men Only) - For most couples, sex changes as life progresses - in one way or another. As life gets more complicated, sex often takes the back seat to other demands - especially in the case of the wife.

"Honey, I Am Not In The Mood" - Paul Mauchline, Guest Author - It is important to honestly communicate with your partner. As you practice over time, you will become more comfortable expressing whether or not you are not in the mood - and why.

Viagra®: An Aphrodisiac? - Here's the straight skinny! (Pun intended!) If you take Viagra® and are not sexually stimulated, nothing will happen - you won't get an erection just by taking the pill.

Inhibitions! Be Gone! - Wouldn't it be great to be able to tell your lover your most secret sexual longings? Try this "red hot" idea!

Not Tonight, Dear! - (For Women Only) - Don't feel like making love? Here is a way to let him down easy without brusing his ego.

SEX. . . Who Has Time!!! - Paul Mauchline, Guest Author - Isn't it about time we throw away our excuses and become more proactive in your relationships? Here's why. . .

Sexually Satisfied - (For Women Only) - Your sexual pleasure is not a gift that your lover gives you. You must recognize your own body's tremendous capacity for sexual pleasure and give yourself permission to enjoy it.

The Art of the Forbidden Kiss - (For Men Only) - Take the plunge. Join the oral majority. Give her a delicious climax that will have her coming back for seconds.

How to Put a Hex on Sex - One moment you're in hump heaven and the next thing you know you are quickly back on earth. What happened? Here is a check-list of relationship lust busters - that if not attended to - can put out the sexual fire.

Let's Play "Doctor!" - (For Men Only) - Lighten up! Have fun with sex.

"Oh Yes, Touch Me There!" - Kara Oh, Guest Author - The whole body can be an erogenous zone and bring you to higher levels of arousal. Here are some tips!

What Men Want - (For Women Only) - Two healthy ideas that can light the fire in your man without intercourse.

The Act of Gentle Seduction - (For Men Only) - The subtle action of seduction enhances lovemaking and promises more sexual satisfaction for both love partners.

Operation UNDERwhelm - (For Women Only) - Men have feelings too, but rarely talk about them. What to know why? Here is one of the main reasons and what you can do about it.

Going Down, Please! - (For Men Only) - Putting her pleasure above your own with this special kiss is a way of saying "I love you" with your mouth.

SEX: Monogamy is Not Monotony - John Lundholm, M.A., R.N., Guest Author - Married 20 years, twenty faithful years, to the same woman, this author ponders the thought, "I could be the one having wild, 'mind-boggling' sex with an ever changing bevy of willing partners. But would I want to?"

Spermicide May Actually Do More Harm Than Good - Adam Glickman, Guest Author - After a decade of research it appears that while Nonoxynol-9 is fairly effecting at killing sperm, it is not effective in fighting the spread of STD's, including HIV.

Astroglide Fights HIV in Lab Test - Adam Glickman, Guest Author - Reuters reports that Astroglide Personal Lubricant has been found to block the replication of the human immunodeficiency virus in lab tests.

Poolside Lover - This erotic story is tastefully expressed. It may be considered by some to be sexually explicit. Fact or fantasy? Only Larry James knows for sure.

And if All Else Fails? - REQUIRED READING if you are considering counseling, therapy (or Personal Relationship Coaching by telephone with Larry James). There is no shame in seeking help from someone qualified to give it. Most people resist change until they are backed against the wall; until they feel that there is nothing else they can do. Change takes courage! It means taking responsibility for your relationship and being brave enough to take that first step toward doing something different while you are still afraid.

How to Get the Most From Reading a Relationship Book - Follow these great tips and watch your relationship prosper.

Forgiveness. . . What's it For? - Forgiveness is often misunderstood. We often think of forgiveness as something that someone who has done us wrong must ask of US. This article suggests that you focus on offering forgiveness TO the person who has wronged you as a healthy way of releasing the anger, resentment, etc. This was the topic of Larry James' appearance on ABC TV's "The View with Barbara Walters and her co-hosts.

The articles menu is updated often. We will also feature sexy articles by several well known guest authors. Guest author submissions are welcome. Stay tuned!

NOTE: All articles listed above are by Larry James, unless otherwise indicated, and are available for reprint in magazines, periodicals, newsletters, newspapers, eZINEs, on the Internet or on your own website. Contact Larry James for conditions and permission to reprint. Reprint@CelebrateIntimacy.com. For Larry's bio, click here.

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