with Relationship Sexpert Larry James
69 Ways
to Be Naughty and Nice!
Part 2
Larry James
24. Take a shower together. Have fun lathering each other up. Slowly wash every part of your lover's
body, perhaps lingering where you know it feels good.
25. Allow him the pleasure of watching you slowly and deliberately undress while he sips a cool glass
of his favorite wine in a comfortable viewing chair.
26. Make love on the rim of your hot tub. Take turns giving each other a licking. Oral sex is an
important part of making yourself irresistible to your partner. Use your imagination. Create a passionate memory
you will revisit each time you return to the hot tub.
27. Camp out in your back yard with lot of blankets for padding and a cooler with your favorite beverage.
Make love on a pile of leaves under the moonlight.
28. Give your lover a deep rub, full-body massage. Touch every inch. Treat them to an assortment of massage creams and oils;
something with a relaxing, sensuous, and alluring scent.
29. Put dinner on "hold." Instead of coming home, fixing dinner and vegging out in front of the TV,
relax together in bed. You may discover that you are both not as tired as you thought you were.
30. Go see an XXX rated movie together. Gently fondle each other while you watch. Save some of the
pleasure for when you get home.
31. Rent a limo. Have the driver drive randomly throughout the city for an hour or two while you make
love and sip a chilled bottle of champagne.
32. Ignore the weather. Make love in the rain.
33. Discover a road less traveled. Take a drive in the country. Turn off on a dirt road, park under a
tree and make love.
34. Trade sides of the bed. Reverse roles. If your partner is always the one to initiate sex, the message
you're sending is this: I do it to please you, not because I want to. This leaves both of you feeling cheated.
Take control by suggesting sex and taking the lead role during lovemaking as well. Let your partner lie back while
you do all the work.
35. Grant your lover a sexual dare. Write out a sexual desire and present it to your partner. Agree to
do something you've always wanted to do but were to embarrassed to talk about.
36. Pretend you are on a first date and make out or relive a past sexual experience that is especially
exciting to recall.
37. Wear no under garments and only loose-fitting clothing. Reach into your lovers lap and don't be
afraid to explore. Touch him/her everywhere.
38. Some evening after dinner, use your after-dinner coffee time or late-night glass of wine as a time to
talk about that one thing your partner does that really turns you on when you make love. See where that can lead.
Perhaps you can have each other for desert.
39. Explore her G-spot.
It's there and. . . you must find it. Use your middle finger to gently explore
her as you stimulate her clitoris with your mouth, fingers or vibrator
.
Ask for feedback on your touch, stroke,
pressure and positioning. Offer her more than one orgasm if she wants it. Ask, don't assume.
40. Show up at his/her "private" office in a rain coat with nothing underneath. Upon entering the office,
put on a sexy mask. Bring a sex toy
.
41. Write a sexy message on the bathroom mirror with lipstick. Draw a heart around your words.
42. In the darkness of the movie or under the cover of a blanket on an airplane, bring your lover to
orgasm with a hand job while applying pressure to his perineum (the place between his testicles and his anus).
The risk is part of the thrill.
43. Buy a box of Cracker Jacks. Carefully unseal the box from the bottom, remove the surprise and
replace it with a sexual fantasy or sexy message and reseal the box. Send it by mail to his or her office.
44. Give your love partner a coupon good for an erotic massage. Add a note that lets him/her know you
are also willing to make love to him/her as a bonus.
45. Turn your bedroom into a bordello. Rev it up for a rambunctious romp with silk or satin sheets,
sexy lamp shades that only give soft light, scented candles, beaded curtains, velvet pillows. Scent the sheets
with a lavender sachet. Choose colors that soothe and excite you. Strategically place mirrors that can give
you a good view of your lovemaking. No TV. Speakers for your favorite music. Convert your bedroom into a
pleasure palace where you can share your sexuality in the safe harbor of your lover's arms.
46. Write a naughty "Red Hot LoveNote" and put it in
your lover's car on the rear view mirror. Include a pin-up of you dressed only in panties.
 Sensual thrills, kinky surprises,
erotic expressions of love and playful games of seduction!
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naughty and nice once each week for 52 weeks a year!
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Copyright © - Larry James.
Adapted from the book, " Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers: The
Importance of Great Sexual Communication and Other Essentials for Extraordinary Hot Sex!."
• If you would like to talk
one-on-one with Larry James about relationship issues related to this article, you are invited to arrange for a
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